Today is a Very Special Day…
Today 14 years ago was the start of a great adventure. It was the official first date of me and my hubby, Scott. It was just a coincidence that it even happened. I have always been a firm believer that Everything happens for a reason. I also believer that people come into your life to teach you a lesson and sometimes give you a gift. The lessons I have learned from my relationship have been many, too many to even write about. But the gift he gave me and continues to give me is unconditional love. No matter what we have been through good, bad or indifferent he has always loved me. I’m not going to sit here and tell you that it has been all sunshine a roses because it hasn’t but I can tell you it has been worth it.
As little girls we are raised in the fantasy that we will meet prince charming, get married, and live happily ever after. The first two you have a good shot at but that last part is soooo much more complicated that you will ever know til you are in it. Marriage takes work, commitment, and communication. We haven’t always been good at the communication part but we are definitely better then when we started. We also have a firm commitment to each other, our kids and our family. I am very blessed and proud to call him my husband. I love you Scott!!
Today also marks the birth of my awesome hubby!! Today is his 40th Birthday! Sadly the stories I have heard about his birth were not that joyous. His mother really wanted a girl. I however am thankful EVERYDAY that he is a boy!! LOL he is one of the most honorable men I have ever met. He is a United States Marine honorably discharged, a faithful husband and outstanding father. He has a work ethic like nobody I have ever known. He works 70+ hours a week to provide for his family and doesn’t complain. I know many men who don’t even provide for their family and don’t even think to care about it. He makes time for each of his kids and loves them regardless of biology. And the love they have for him is soo evident in their eyes.
As for being a husband words can’t even express the love I feel for him. He has been through thick and thin with me. He has put up with me when I have been less then pleasant
(a we ladies know we are unpleasant at least one week a month or more lmao). He does the very best he can 110% of the time. I don’t know many men alive that do that. My heart has been his from day one and I can’t imagine one single day without him in it. He truly is my everything and I thank God that he made him for me. Happy 40th Birthday Babe! I can’t wait to see what the next 14 years has in store for us. (just as long as we stay in Florida ;0) )