Wait Until Middle School to Get Unlimited Talk Text and Data/Web For Your Kids

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I have made it no secret that I don’t think kids in elementary school need cell phones. I have been arguing with my girls who are now 10 & 11 for about 2 years over it. Many of their friends have them and so of course they wanted them too. I held my ground through the constant nagging and I am happy to say they survived. LOL This year however, my 11 yr old Abbie started middle school. And so when the subject was brought up this past week I agreed to let her get one. There are many reasons why I held out until middle school and since I am a research nut I want to give you my top 3 reasons why you should wait too.  Along with that I will share which Unlimited Talk Text and Data/Web plan I chose to get my new middle schooler.

 Top 3 Reasons to Wait Until Middle School to Get Cell Phone With Unlimited Talk, Text, and Data/Web

Middle School Kids With Cell Phones

1. Responsibility Comes With Maturity ~ We all know that each child is different and each child matures at a different rate. When it comes to the responsibility of having a cell phone the longer you can wait the better chance that they will respect your rules and be able to make better choices in regards to phone usage. From a social work perspective and my years of schooling (yeah I know LOL), the middle school years are the start of  the formal operational stage which is the fourth and final stage of Piaget’s theory of cognitive development. This stage is when kids start to use logical thought, deductive reasoning, and systematic planning. Which means they are able to be more responsible for things they can control like a cell phone.

Middle School means Big Changes

2. Safety ~ Middle school for my daughter, as with many other kids across the country, means many scary firsts. The biggest one is going to a school they know little about. For her this is especially true because we moved over the summer. Another first is that for her, she will be switching classrooms for every class. I have to say it is as scary for me as it is for her. Not that I don’t trust the school to keep my daughter safe but as a mom your going to worry. The last first is that she will be doing after school cheerleading. While I am super excited for her to be involved with after school activities it also brings on safety concerns. Those concerns include trusting the after school staff and the office staff leaving in the afternoon. Once the office closes there is no phone for her to call me from in an emergency or if something changes and she needs to be picked up early. Having a cell phone will give her (and me) the feeling of safety knowing she can reach me or her Dad any time she needs to.

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3. Cost ~Let’s be honest cell phones and having to replace them can be expensive. Not to mention the phone usage can nearly make you bankrupt. LOL Ok that is a bit of an exaggeration but it can be pricey. That’s where  Walmart Mobile Unlimited Talk Text and Data/Web  and cell phones come in super handy. After looking at adding another line to our current phone plan we decided to look into other options. While at Walmart shopping we stopped into the electronics department to look at the phones and cell plans that they offered. I have to say I was surprised at all the options. The Walmart Mobile Unlimited Talk Text and Data/Web plan for $34.88 INSTANTLY caught my eye. First because it is WAY cheaper then what I am currently paying and second because I thought “Now that is a monthly bill I don’t mind adding to the budget”. We also looked at all the phone available and were pleasantly surprised to find the Alcatel One Touch Fierce was on rollback for $100. It had everything that Abbie wanted in a phone but wasn’t overpriced. So we decided that would be her first cell phone.

One of my favorite features of the Walmart Mobile Plans is the Family Controls Feature. The Family Controls feature lets the primary account holder (Me) manage access for other lines on the account in the following ways:

  • Limit how many minutes or messages can be used by any line on the account
  • Block usage at certain times of day
  • Set up to ten Always Allowed and Never Allowed numbers for each line
  • Block 411
  • Receive alerts when lines on your account reach or exceed a Family Controls limit
  • Assign another line Parent Line permissions

LOVE IT!!! Everything she wants and Everything as a parent I want! You really can’t beat it. School for us just started so we will see how Abbie handles the responsibility of having her own cell phone. Here is to hoping she has a wonderful 1st yr in middle school and that we don’t have to replace her phone before Christmas. 😉

When Did Your Kids Get Their First Cell Phone?

Comments

  1. I totally agree on waiting until the child is of the right maturity to manage a cell phone properly. Great job mama!

  2. My daughter got hers when she started middle school as well.

  3. My 8 year old 3rd grader is dying for her own phone. Thank goodness her iPod Touch is suficing for now. Not sure how long that is going to last though. I REALLY want to wait till middle school too.

  4. I love that she is so happy with it, and I plan to WAIT for my boys 🙂

  5. My daughter is non-verbal, so eventually we will have to get a phone with software or something for her to contact me when she needs to. Until then her iPod will do.

  6. I completely agree with you! We love our Walmart Family Mobile phone, have had it a year now with no problems whatsoever!

  7. My oldest is 4 so we have a while to decide when we will give kids phones. It seems they are getting them earlier and earlier these days though. I didn’t have one until I turned 16 and got my driver’s license, though my younger brother and sister each had one by age 12. I definitely think there needs to be a valid reason to give a child a phone — extracurricular activities being the best one I can think of!

  8. My grandson is 12 and entering middle school this year. His mom and dad are in discussions right now on whether to get him a cellphone. I think it is too young, but they are the ones who need to be in contact with him, so they are leaning towards getting it.

  9. It is so hard to deal with kids and cell phones, I am NOT looking forward to telling my girls no.

  10. We just got this SAME phone for my 5th grader – but it’s not HIS phone, it’s a ‘safety phone’ for him to take if he is going somewhere without us.

  11. My kids are too young still for a cell phone. I like the way you think though. Middle school sounds good!

  12. My kids don’t have cell phones yet. I haven’t decided if there’s a set age that I’ll purchase one for them. I think it’ll depend on what type of activities they are doing and if they are going to be away from us on a regular basis. Middle school sounds like an appropriate time to get one.

  13. I think that like so many other decisions, each family needs to do what’s right for them. I got my son his first cell phone when he was in 5th grade.

  14. This is the second post I’ve seen about Walmart’s cell packages; it really has me curious now. My son will be going into middle school in another two years, and I’m looking at providers for myself now – I’ll have to check them out.
    Thanks!
    Steph

  15. Maturity and safety…yes! It gets to me when I see young elementary school kids waling around with phones!

  16. We got our 11 year old one for her birthday also. It’s been great since she is at a lot of activities without us (symphony, robotics, sports). Yesterday, the bus broke down on the way home so she sent us a text.

  17. Mine is about to turn 5. I’m glad I don’t have to worry about him having a cell phone yet!

  18. Middle school was when my kids got theirs too. It was much easier for them to keep me up to date on where,when,who’s that way.

  19. I don’t think my 8 year old is quite ready for one yet. 🙂

  20. I always wanted to wait till high school but I totally understand the need for phones in earlier grades. Great features! #client

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